Depression

Hi Poppy,

Thanks for asking you are really sweet I was feeling a little better. I had a session with my "new" therapist and he was really lovely and helpful, he made me see that it is something that alot of people go through and particularily those who suffer with a chronic illness. His wife actually has MS so he understood a lot of what I am going through. My husband had a "mad" moment and we had an argument and he called me "queer" that has brought me back down into the doldrems again We aren't talking at the moment but I guess we will sort it out sooner or later!!

Once again thanks for asking! Talk to you soon.
Take Care
Love and Hugs
xxxMaz

Maz:

I can understand how you feel. Our loved ones (husbands-or other family members) can hurt us the most - because we love them so much. I had an argument with my husband last Friday and I just couldn't get over it. Later, we sat down and talked about the stress we are both under and my fears and feelings of worth, etc. That helped but you still want them to understand - sometimes, I think, they just can't understand because they are not going through it. They are feeling overwhelmed by being caretakers. It is just a circle of emotions that continue to go around from time to time. You will work things out. Our loved ones really do love us - they are human - like we are. We all have our ups and downs.

Just know that we understand you and care when you don't think anyone else does.

Hope you continue to feel better and smile, my friend.

Maz and Poppy

On the flip side i am the sick one and also have my ups and downs with my wife. Sometimes its hard for her to understand but we usually work things out. I have learned to try not to get stressed out about it , but thats not easy to do sometimes.
Just thought i would give a males 2 cents

from the yardman

You girls take care
Ray

Hi Poppy and Ray,

Thanks We will get over it and work things out we always do.

Poppy, you are right it's because we love them so much that they hurt us so much!

Ray, thanks for giving a male's perspective, it does help alot and I really do value your opinion!

Thanks for the love and support, I'd be lost without you guys

Take Care
Love and Hugs
xxxMaz